What happened to the Fred Astaires and James Bonds in modern society?

Gentlemen – what happened to the Fred Astaires and James Bonds in
modern society?
Even nowadays or especially in in our modern times it is nothing wrong to be
polite, intelligent, witty, talented, modest, well dressed, well groomed and
cultural aware.
If you have this personality traits you can be sure nothing can go wrong.
And even in societies of presidents, queens, princes and kings you will be
comfortable and confident. Yes, there are some rules in society and it is
good to know them. Because even if you are the most powefull man in the
world – with breaking or not knowing them you will make a fool out of yourself.
A gentleman is not born, he is made and educated. And education is not a
restriction of fun it will make an art out of it.